When a client mentions it · III-004
Self-disclosure and the transparent self
Domain III · Humanistic, existential & experiential · Sidney M. Jourard · 1964 · Gainesville
What it is
Not a manualised therapy but a theory of personality and of the therapeutic relationship, developed by Jourard (1926–1974), a Toronto-born psychologist who worked at the University of Florida, Gainesville, from 1958, kept a limited private practice throughout his career, founded the growth centre…
Format
- Status of this section. None of the sources describes phases, session counts or transition criteria in Jourard's own work; he presented a relationship, not a protocol. The phase structure below is a that orders his stated ideas into a usable course of individual therapy. Format in his practice:…
- Session format: standard 50-minute individual sessions; weekly is a reasonable default. Group application: dyadic mutual-disclosure exercises are a plausible group format given his growth-centre work and experiments, but the content of his groups was not found.
Who practises it, and how they are trained or regulated
- What it is. Not a manualised therapy but a theory of personality and of the therapeutic relationship, developed by Jourard (1926–1974), a Toronto-born psychologist who worked at the University of Florida, Gainesville, from 1958, kept a limited private practice throughout his career, founded the growth centre "Center of Man" in Gainesville in 1964, and was the first elected president of the (American) Association for…
Questions to explore with your client
- What drew you to it, and what are you hoping it will change?
- Is there physical contact? Was it explained beforehand, and do you feel free to say no or stop at any point?
- Does it involve fasting, a special diet or 'detox'? Have you discussed this with your doctor?
- Is it a group, retreat or community? How do they respond if someone wants to leave or raises a concern?
- Does it use a device, heat, cold, water or a physical procedure? Has a medical professional checked that it is safe for you?
- Who runs it, and what training or registration do they hold?
- What actually happens in a session or meeting, and how often?
- What does it cost, and is there pressure to commit to more?
- How do you feel afterwards, in the hours and days that follow?
- Does it fit with, or clash with, the work we do here?
What practitioners of it watch for
- Disclosing to feel less alone, to be liked, or to manage anxiety. Working: you can explain the purpose of each disclosure you made.
- Your own sadness or relief leaking into the ending in a way the client has to manage. Working: the client leaves with named people, not just insights.
- Disclosures that are disguised criticism; reactions you have not thought through. Working: the client stops performing and responds from what they feel.
- Increased disclosure on measures can look like worsening; interpret with the client. Working: fuller, more specific answers; fewer "neutral" or socially desirable responses.
- Shame spikes when blanks become visible; slow down and return to 4.1. Do not treat low disclosure in a given area as pathology without checking cultural and role norms (principle on culture).…
When to involve someone else
- New or worsening physical symptoms, or advice to stop or change prescribed medication: involve the client's doctor or prescriber.
- Signs of coercion, isolation from family and friends, escalating costs or secrecy: discuss openly and consider safeguarding.
- A crisis or thoughts of suicide: follow your crisis protocol. In the US, call or text 988; in the UK and Ireland, Samaritans on 116 123.
Drawn automatically from the guide's own sections. Stay curious: neither endorse nor dismiss what the client values, and check anything that matters against the full guide and its sources. Not medical advice.