1. Introduction
Version followed: each organisation as it describes itself on its own website (the Inayatiyya, including its Global Ethics Policy approved 26 July 2021; Sufi Ruhaniat International and the Dances of Universal Peace leaders' network in the UK; Sufism Reoriented; Beshara and the Chisholme Institute), with Jeffery-Street (2012) for Beshara's course history and The FADER (2017) for reported criticism of Sufism Reoriented.
This is not a therapy. It is a family of modern Western Sufi organisations, and this guide is for a psychotherapist whose client belongs to, is joining, or is leaving one of them. Each organisation is described as it publishes itself. The intervention inventory is the therapist's own work alongside the client's membership. [source: organisations' own pages, listed under Sources]
- Inayatiyya (Inayati Order). The organisation presents its teachings as coming from Pir-o-Murshid Hazrat Inayat Khan. Entry to its Inner School is by "initiation as a student on the path, which is called a Murid", and it describes the bond between guide and murid as "spiritual friendship". It names seven activities: Inner School, Healing Activity, Kinship, Universal Worship, Zira'at, Knighthood of Purity and Music. Pir Zia Inayat Khan teaches in its leaders' programme. [source: Inayatiyya Inner School introduction; Global Ethics Policy; Emergent Leaders curriculum] The Order's earlier names and dates of renaming are [uncertain: not verified].
- Sufi Ruhaniat International. The organisation states that it was founded by Murshid Samuel L. Lewis, a disciple of Hazrat Inayat Khan, shortly before Lewis died in 1971. Its line of leaders runs from Lewis to Pir Moineddin Jablonski (1971–2001) to the current leader, Pir Shabda Kahn. Each mureed (initiated student) has an initiator who serves as friend, guide and "reality check". Its activities include the Dances of Universal Peace, Walking Concentrations and the Dervish Healing Order. [source: Ruhaniat "About the Ruhaniat"]
- Sufism Reoriented. The organisation states that Meher Baba, whom it calls the "Avatar", chartered it. It traces its line from Rabia Ada Martin, the first American student of Hazrat Inayat Khan, who surrendered her Sufi order to Meher Baba in 1945. Ivy Duce, James MacKie and Carol Weyland Conner then led it in turn. Conner died on 22 April 2023, and Murshid Walker Lambert has led it since then. Meher Baba signed its Charter of Guidance on 14 November 1952, and the charter directs study of God Speaks. Communities are based in Walnut Creek (California), Washington DC and Myrtle Beach (South Carolina). [source: Sufism Reoriented lineage and daily-life pages]
- Beshara. Beshara is a school of study centred on Ibn 'Arabi and "the Unity of Being". Bulent Rauf began its first long residential course in 1975, built on four disciplines: work, study, meditation and devotional practice. [source: Jeffery-Street 2012 chapter page] Its Chisholme course pages call Chisholme "a school without teachers", in which facilitators guide but do not tell participants what to believe. [source: Beshara 40-day retreat page] Beshara's own pages do not call it a Sufi order (tariqa) or say that it initiates students [uncertain: not stated].
How change happens, in the organisations' own terms: through an initiatic relationship and personal practice (Inayatiyya, Ruhaniat); through discipleship to Meher Baba and study of the soul's journey (Sufism Reoriented); or through study, work, meditation and devotional practice aimed at knowing the self (Beshara). For the therapist, change means helping the client hold their practice and membership in a way that is freely chosen, safe and integrated with the rest of their life. [synthesis]
2. Framework
There is no treatment protocol. The organisations publish no session counts for therapy, and none is given here. The framework below has two strands that run side by side: the client's path in the organisation, as published, and the therapist's process. [synthesis]
A. The client's path in the organisation (as published)
- Open contact. Contact begins with public classes, retreats, Dances of Universal Peace evenings or introductory courses. Ruhaniat retreats and classes are open to both initiates and non-initiates. Beshara runs free introductory events, short courses and a blended Foundation course that combines in-person weekends, ten fortnightly online sessions and an optional stay at Chisholme. [source: Ruhaniat about page; Beshara introductory event page]
- Commitment. In the Inayatiyya and Ruhaniat this is initiation as murid or mureed, with a personal guide or initiator. In Sufism Reoriented it is discipleship within a residential or close-knit community: about 115 people take part in Washington DC, about two-thirds living at the centre complex, and members are "fully engaged in one or more of the murshid's service projects". In Beshara it is long residential courses: a 40-day retreat and a six-month course at the Chisholme Institute. The organisations' own pages do not describe how one applies or what is required of members [uncertain: not stated]. [source: Inayatiyya; Ruhaniat; Sufism Reoriented daily-life page; Beshara retreat pages]
- Ongoing practice and guidance. This means practices given by a guide, group devotional practice, study, and service or work. [source: as above]
- Leadership and certification. Each organisation has its own route:
- Inayatiyya: "Leaders" are people officially authorised to lead in any of the seven activities, including Spiritual Guides. Leaders' training modules cover areas such as Guidance and Sacred Sound. An Emergent Leaders Program runs in four sessions (Concentration, Contemplation, Meditation, Realization). It covers the guide–murid relationship, contemplative listening, the guide's own psychological purification, projections and boundaries, self-disclosure, and "the adab and ethics of representing the Inayati Order". The process for authorising leaders is not published [uncertain]. [source: Global Ethics Policy; Emergent Leaders curriculum]
- Dances of Universal Peace (UK network): a person attends Dances, then finds a mentor, who should not be a spouse, partner or relative. They become a mentored leader, which brings automatic membership of the Leaders Guild. Certification is optional and is arranged with the mentor. Most mentors expect at least three years of study and leading, and the mentor judges when certification is due. Experienced teachers act as mentors, and the Mentors Guild supervises. Leaders must keep to the guild's agreements and an active mentoring relationship. [source: The Dance Leading Path]
- Sufism Reoriented: there is no published certification. A teacher recognises a successor, and the qualification is described as advanced maturity, recognisable only by someone of equal or greater maturity. [source: Sufism Reoriented lineage page]
- Beshara: courses are run by facilitators and tutors. No certification route is published [uncertain: not stated].
B. The therapist's process [synthesis]
| Phase | Goal | Move on when |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Orientation and assessment | Learn which organisation the client is in, their role and stage, their guide or teacher relationship, which practices they do (public outline only), and what they want from therapy regarding it | The client's own account of their path is recorded in their words, and consent to include religious material is explicit |
| 2. Formulation | Place the membership in the cultural formulation, covering meaning, support, stressors, and any risks (adverse practice effects, coercive dynamics, health) | The client agrees with the formulation and has set goals |
| 3. Integration or change work | Use the interventions in section 4 as indicated | Goals are met, or the client is stable enough to continue the path or the exit they chose |
| 4. Maintenance and liaison | Set relapse signs and plans for retreats or intensives, and coordinate with the guide if the client wishes | Ending or step-down |
Format: ordinary individual sessions. Liaison with a guide, initiator or facilitator happens only with written consent. [synthesis]
3. Guiding principles
- Describe the organisation as it describes itself, and attribute its concepts. In practice, use the client's terms (murid or mureed, guide, initiator, Murshid or Murshida, Pir, zikr, sanskaras, Unity of Being) with short glosses, and do not endorse or dismiss claims such as Meher Baba's status as "Avatar". [source: organisations' pages; synthesis]
- The client leads on religious content. In practice, bring practices into sessions only when the client asks, with consent recorded. [synthesis]
- Restricted content stays restricted. In practice, never ask the client to recite or reveal practices their guide gave privately. Work with what the practice does for them, not with its wording. Do not encourage anyone to take up initiatory practices without a legitimate teacher. [synthesis]
- You are not the client's guide. In practice, do not assign spiritual practices, interpret dreams or experiences as signs of spiritual station, or act as Murshid. The organisations' own leaders' training treats guidance as a separate, authorised role. [source: Emergent Leaders curriculum; synthesis]
- Name the power in the guide relationship without pathologising it. The Inayatiyya's own leaders' training covers projections and boundaries, and its ethics policy states that misuse of power "can cause serious harm". In practice, ask openly how the client experiences their guide's authority. [source: Emergent Leaders curriculum; Global Ethics Policy]
- Autonomy is a value the organisations also state. The Inayatiyya policy says leaders cannot require participants to follow specific practices and that a murid may move to another guide at any time. In practice, support the client's choices, including staying, changing guide, pausing or leaving. [source: Global Ethics Policy]
- Hold adverse experiences without blame. Meditation research documents challenging experiences that are not limited to people with prior conditions or to intensive retreats. In practice, normalise, assess and adjust. Do not assume the client did it wrong. [source: Brown University 2017 report on Lindahl et al. 2017, PLOS ONE]
- Report controversy accurately. In practice, rely only on courts, independent investigations and major news. Name no private individuals. Avoid loaded labels for groups, and keep to the behaviours that matter clinically (coercion, isolation, financial pressure). [synthesis]
- Refer and collaborate within your competence. In practice, refer to the client's guide or tradition for spiritual questions, and to medical or psychiatric care for health and risk questions. The Inayatiyya policy itself requires its leaders to refer serious conditions to licensed mental health professionals. [source: Global Ethics Policy]
4. Intervention inventory
These are the therapist's procedures alongside the client's membership. The organisations do not publish clinical procedures, so the steps are [synthesis] unless a source is given. All example language is illustrative.
4.1 Orienting assessment of membership and path
- Purpose: to learn where the client stands in their organisation and what it means to them. Use it at intake whenever the client mentions Sufi practice, the Dances of Universal Peace, Meher Baba or Beshara.
- Steps: (1) Ask which organisation and which local group or centre. (2) Ask about their stage: attending, initiated or in discipleship, on a residential course, leading or training as a leader, or leaving. (3) Ask who their guide, initiator, mentor or facilitator is, by role only, and how often they meet. (4) Ask which kinds of practice they do, in general terms only (see 4.3). (5) Ask how membership affects living arrangements, work, money, relationships and time. (6) Ask what they want therapy to do about any of this, which may be nothing. (7) Record the answers in the client's own words.
- Example language (illustrative): "You mentioned your guide. Could you tell me in your own words what that relationship is like and what it asks of you?" "Is your path something you'd like us to bring into our work, or would you rather keep it separate?"
- Watch for: vagueness or anxiety about describing living arrangements, finances or permission to be in therapy (see 4.9). Also watch for your own assumptions about any of the four organisations. It is working when the client can describe their path freely and sets the terms for including it.
4.2 Cultural Formulation Interview, with the spirituality, religion and moral traditions module
- Purpose: to place the membership in a structured cultural formulation. Use it at assessment and when spiritual factors seem central to the presenting problem. [source: DSM-5-TR CFI, uncertain: not verified]
- Steps: (1) Use the core CFI questions in your own words, covering the problem, its causes, stressors and supports, and help-seeking. (2) Add the supplementary module on spirituality, religion and moral traditions: what role the path plays, which community supports the client, and any conflicts between the path and other parts of life. (3) Ask how the guide or community would understand the current problem. (4) Write the cultural formulation with the client.
- Example language (illustrative): "How would your guide, or people in your circle, understand what you're going through right now?"
- Watch for: a client who assumes that therapy will be hostile to the path, and a community explanation that discourages medical care. It is working when the client's and the community's explanations both appear in the formulation.
4.3 Public outline of the client's practices, with restricted content left alone
- Purpose: to understand what the client does without asking for restricted content. Use it whenever practices may relate to the symptoms.
- What the organisations publicly name:
- Inayatiyya: "spiritual nourishment" through breath, sacred sound, inspiring phrases, light, energy and divine emotion, given within the guide–murid relationship; zikr is also led. [source: Inayatiyya Inner School introduction]
- Ruhaniat: personal practice under an initiator, the Dances of Universal Peace, Walking Concentrations, and the Dervish Healing Order. The Dances are passed from teacher to student, and the sacred phrase is treated as their foundation. [source: Ruhaniat about page; The Dance Leading Path]
- Sufism Reoriented: study of God Speaks and of sanskaras through workshops, classes and personal guidance; retreats, sahavas (gatherings with Meher Baba) and pilgrimages; service projects; communal living. [source: Sufism Reoriented lineage and daily-life pages]
- Beshara: group study of texts (Ibn 'Arabi among others); meditation twice daily, silent or guided; practical work such as cooking, gardening and cleaning; and some evenings of zikr, which Beshara describes as "the group invocation of names of the one reality". [source: Beshara 40-day retreat page]
- Steps: (1) Ask what kind of practice it is (for example breath-centred, sound or phrase repetition, movement or dance, study, silent sitting, service), roughly how often, and whether the guide set it. Do not ask for the words, counts or sequences. (2) Ask what the practice does for them and what it is for, in their tradition's terms. (3) Ask whether any practice coincides with symptoms. (4) If the practice involves breath, do not coach or change the technique. Ask the client to raise any change with the person who gave the practice, and to involve their doctor if there are physical symptoms.
- Example language (illustrative): "You don't need to tell me the words or details your guide gave you. I'd just like a sense of what kind of practice it is and what it does for you."
- Watch for: your own curiosity pulling toward restricted content, and a client who feels obliged to keep up a practice that is distressing them. It is working when you have a usable outline and the client's confidences to their guide are respected.
4.4 Client-led integration of the path as a resource
- Purpose: to draw on meaning, community and practice the client already values, in their own tradition and language, within spiritually integrated psychotherapy. Use it when the client asks for it and the path is a source of support.
- Steps: (1) Get explicit consent. (2) Ask which teachings, phrases or communal practices help in hard moments. (3) Link these to therapy goals; for example, community service as behavioural activation, or a teaching on compassion as support for self-compassion work. (4) Let the client choose any in-session use, such as a phrase they choose to bring, without the therapist leading a ritual. (5) Review whether it helps.
- Example language (illustrative): "When things were hard before, was there anything from your path that steadied you? Would you like to build on that here?"
- Watch for: spiritual bypassing, where a practice is used to avoid feelings or decisions; the therapist slipping into the guide's role; and guilt if the resource fails. It is working when the client reports the resource helping and keeps control of how it is used.
4.5 Planning and screening around retreats and residential courses
- Purpose: to reduce risk around intensive periods. Examples include silent retreats, the 40-day Chisholme retreat (2017 listing), the six-month Chisholme course, Youpon Dunes retreats, and moves into community residence. [source: Beshara retreat pages; Sufism Reoriented daily-life page] Use it before any intensive or residential commitment.
- Steps: (1) Review current mental state, sleep, history of psychosis, mania, dissociation or trauma, and medication; medication questions go to the prescriber. (2) Ask how the programme handles difficulties: is there a named person to talk to, can the client leave early, and are there refund terms? (The 2017 Beshara listing gives a per-day partial refund for leaving early.) (3) Agree warning signs and a plan, including who to contact and when to step back. (4) Ask whether the client agrees to your contacting the facilitator or guide if needed. (5) Book a session for after the programme.
- Example language (illustrative): "Let's make a plan now for what you'd do if things got very intense while you're away, and who you'd talk to."
- Watch for: current instability, recent bereavement or crisis, or untreated sleep disturbance, all of which suggest postponing. Also watch for pressure to attend regardless. It is working when the client goes with a plan and comes back able to talk the experience through.
4.6 Responding to challenging contemplative experiences
- Purpose: to recognise and respond to difficult effects of practice. The Varieties of Contemplative Experience study (Lindahl et al. 2017, PLOS ONE) mapped 59 kinds of experience in seven domains: cognitive, perceptual, affective, somatic, conative, sense of self, and social. Examples include hypersensitivity to light or sound, insomnia, involuntary movements, fear, anxiety, panic, loss of emotion, and experiences of unity that became overwhelming. Effects lasted from days to more than a decade, and they were not limited to people with prior conditions, intensive retreats or poor supervision. That study sampled Western Buddhist practitioners, and its relevance to Sufi practice is inferred. [source: Brown University 2017; inference marked] The systematic review by Farias et al. 2020, Acta Psychiatrica Scandinavica, Britton's Cheetah House resources and Treleaven's (2018) trauma-sensitive mindfulness are standard further references. [uncertain: not verified]
- Steps: (1) Normalise the experience: it is documented, and it is not the client's fault. (2) Assess risk and differential diagnosis: psychosis (fixed beliefs, functional decline), mania (reduced need for sleep, pressured speech), depression, dissociation and trauma re-experiencing. Use the DSM-5-TR category for a religious or spiritual problem (Z65.8) when distress is spiritual and no disorder is present. [uncertain: manual text not verified] (3) Reduce the dose: with the client's agreement, and ideally with the guide, cut back or pause the intensive practice. Do not alter the technique yourself. (4) Ground the client: ordinary activity, regular sleep and meals, physical exercise, time with people outside the practice, and orienting to the senses. (5) Arrange medical or psychiatric review if there is psychosis, mania, suicidality or severe insomnia. (6) If the client wishes, coordinate with the teacher. (7) Afterwards, help the client make sense of the experience in their own framework.
- Example language (illustrative): "What you're describing is something other practitioners have reported too. It doesn't mean you've done anything wrong. Let's look at what would help you feel more settled day to day."
- Watch for: two opposite errors, pathologising a meaningful spiritual crisis and missing serious illness, and a guide's advice to keep practising harder through destabilisation. It is working when sleep and functioning recover, distress falls, and the client can decide about resuming practice.
4.7 Exploring the guide relationship
- Purpose: to help the client reflect on a central, powerful relationship. The Inayatiyya's leaders' training itself covers projections, boundaries and self-disclosure, and the Ruhaniat describes the initiator as a "reality check". [source: Emergent Leaders curriculum; Ruhaniat about page] Use it when the guide relationship comes up in distress, decisions or attachment patterns.
- Steps: (1) Ask what the guide offers and what the client gives: time, money, obedience, confidences. (2) Ask how disagreements are handled and whether the client feels free to say no. (3) Look at parallels with earlier attachment figures, without interpreting the spiritual bond away. (4) Ask what the client's organisation says about the relationship; for example, the Inayatiyya says a murid may move to another guide at any time. [source: Global Ethics Policy]
- Example language (illustrative): "If you disagreed with your guide about something important, what would happen?"
- Watch for: fear of displeasing the guide, decisions about career, partner or money being handed over, and secrecy about the relationship. In Sufism Reoriented, The FADER reported a member's account of being directed by a former Murshid toward a particular career (see 4.9). It is working when the client can describe the relationship with nuance and act on their own judgment within it.
4.8 Collaboration with the guide, initiator, mentor or facilitator
- Purpose: to coordinate care when the client wants it, for example around adverse experiences, retreats or crisis. The Inayatiyya's policy asks participants with significant conditions to tell their leader, and it requires leaders to make reasonable adjustments and to refer serious conditions (it names severe depression, psychosis and personality disorder) to licensed mental health professionals. [source: Global Ethics Policy] Use it only with the client's wish and written consent.
- Steps: (1) Agree with the client what may be shared, for what purpose, and with whom. (2) Ask the client whether they want to be present. (3) Keep to practical matters such as pausing practice, adjusting retreat participation, warning signs and who to contact. Do not discuss doctrine. (4) Record the contact. (5) Report back to the client.
- Example language (illustrative): "Would it help if I spoke with your guide about easing off for now? You decide what I say."
- Watch for: information flowing back to the community that the client did not authorise; a guide who discourages treatment; and you being drawn into the client's standing in the group. It is working when the client feels backed by both relationships.
4.9 Assessing high-control dynamics
- Purpose: to notice coercive features without labelling a group. Use it when the client reports pressure, isolation, financial strain, or fear of leaving.
- What has been reported: For Sufism Reoriented, The FADER (Barshad, 12 July 2017) reported the following:
- Members live in shared buildings, and a critic said they were discouraged from living alone.
- Members gave from personal savings to fund the Walnut Creek sanctuary, which was estimated to cost more than $35 million.
- A member said a former Murshid directed him toward a particular career.
- A former member said a reading by a former leader felt like manipulation.
- A critic described "signs of suppression of individual choice".
- A former member's newsletter described members performing menial tasks for the Murshid with intense devotion.
- A person raised in the group described a childhood that was "friendly and warm".
- A spokesperson said the criticism reflected limited Western understanding of spiritual communities and "was not our experience".
- The article reported no lawsuits or formal investigations against the group. The 2007–2012 dispute with neighbours over land use ended when the Contra Costa County Board of Supervisors approved the sanctuary in February 2012. [source: The FADER 2017] Court findings or independent investigations of misconduct in the Inayatiyya, the Ruhaniat or Beshara: none found in the sources consulted. Check current reporting if a client raises a concern.
- Steps: (1) Ask neutrally about specific behaviours: control over where the client lives, works, whom they partner with or marry, and how they spend money; restrictions on contact with outsiders; punishment of doubt or questions; and pressure around leaving. (2) Compare these with the organisation's own published rules; for example, the Inayatiyya bans bullying, financial pressure and retaliation against complainants. [source: Global Ethics Policy] (3) Weigh the client's own valuing of the community alongside any concerns. (4) Agree with the client what, if anything, they want to change.
- Example language (illustrative): "Some communities ask a great deal of their members. How free do you feel to make your own choices about work, money and where you live?"
- Watch for: the client being unable to discuss doubts, cut off from outside relationships, financially dependent on the group, or afraid of consequences for leaving. Watch also for your own bias, in either direction. It is working when the client can look at the costs and benefits of membership openly.
4.10 Supporting use of the organisation's ethics and complaints routes
- Purpose: to help a client who has experienced boundary violations or misconduct by a leader. Use it after disclosure of exploitation, harassment, bullying or sexual boundary-crossing.
- What is published: The Inayatiyya Global Ethics Policy covers leaders in all seven activities. Its contents include:
- It defines harassment to include unwelcome sexual behaviour, financial pressure or demands, and soliciting personal favours, and says a single incident can count.
- Leaders must show "exemplary restraint" if a participant has sexual feelings toward them. The policy does not state an outright ban on sexual relationships with murids.
- Spiritual guidance is confidential, with exceptions for serious foreseeable harm and legal requirements.
- Leaders must follow national safeguarding protocols for children and vulnerable adults.
- Complaints must be made within three years of the breach. Informal resolution is tried first. A formal complaint then goes to an Ethics Response Team, with a risk assessment, possible interim suspension, a case officer and separate interviews. The team chooses mediation or a panel that should include an impartial lay member. Appeals are allowed within 20 working days.
- Sanctions range from an apology to suspension, removal from roles, or a request to leave the community. [source: Global Ethics Policy] The Ruhaniat has a "Mureed Advocate and Ethics" page whose contents are [uncertain: not verified]. The Dances of Universal Peace leaders' network has guild agreements and a supervising Mentors Guild. [source: The Dance Leading Path] A published complaints process for Sufism Reoriented or Beshara: none found in the sources consulted.
- Steps: (1) Ensure safety, and check your own legal and professional reporting duties, especially for minors or vulnerable adults and for criminal acts. (2) Explain the routes available: the organisation's own process, the police, civil remedies, and independent advice. (3) Let the client decide. (4) Support them through the process, including the possibility of an unsatisfying outcome. (5) Treat any trauma sequelae.
- Example language (illustrative): "What happened was not your fault. There are several routes, inside and outside the organisation, and you get to choose which, if any, to use."
- Watch for: self-blame framed in spiritual terms, and pressure to resolve things informally or keep them within the community. It is working when the client makes an informed choice and their distress lessens.
4.11 Changing guide, pausing or leaving; religious trauma
- Purpose: to support transitions out of or within an organisation. Use it when the client is considering leaving, has left, or is changing guide.
- Steps: (1) Check what the organisation itself permits; for example, the Inayatiyya allows a murid to move to another guide at any time, and requires a guide who cannot work with a murid to close the relationship sensitively. [source: Global Ethics Policy] (2) Map what leaving would cost: housing, work, friendships, finances, identity and meaning, especially where the client lives in community. (3) Plan practical steps if needed. (4) Work with grief, guilt, fear and anger, and with any distress from teachings or practices. (5) Help the client decide which practices or beliefs to keep, and support a new spiritual home if they want one.
- Example language (illustrative): "Leaving a community you've given years to can be a real loss, even when it's the right choice. What would you want to keep from that time?"
- Watch for: isolation after leaving, intrusive fear related to teachings, and loss of all meaning. Watch also for the therapist rushing an exit. It is working when the client has a stable life outside, or a renewed and freely chosen relationship with the path.
4.12 Scrupulosity around practice
- Purpose: to address obsessive doubt about doing practices "correctly" or completely (for example exact repetitions of a phrase), about spiritual purity, or about displeasing the guide or Meher Baba. Use it when practice becomes ritualised checking and repeating to relieve anxiety.
- Steps: (1) Assess for OCD. Distinguish devotion that brings peace from compulsion driven by fear. (2) With the client's consent, consult their guide or another trusted authority in the tradition about what is actually required, which practices can be done imperfectly, and what is permitted when unwell. (3) Build an exposure and response prevention (ERP) hierarchy, using the guide's statements as the agreed standard and exposing to deliberate imperfection within those limits. (4) Do not let the therapist set religious rules. [synthesis; IOCDF guidance on scrupulosity, uncertain: not verified]
- Example language (illustrative): "Your guide has said this practice doesn't need to be perfect. Let's practise doing it once and stopping, and notice what the anxiety does."
- Watch for: reassurance-seeking from the guide or therapist becoming a compulsion, and exposures that breach real commitments. It is working when time spent on rituals falls and the client experiences the practice as voluntary.
4.13 Health matters routed to the doctor
- Purpose: to address physical effects of practice or community life, such as sleep loss on retreat, exertion in dance or work, smoking norms (The FADER reported members adopting a former Murshid's habits, including smoking), and somatic symptoms during practice. Use it whenever physical symptoms appear.
- Steps: (1) Note the symptom and its timing in relation to practice. (2) Refer to the client's doctor, and to the prescriber for medication questions. (3) Coordinate with consent. (4) Do not present any practice, including the Dervish Healing Order or Inayatiyya healing activities, as treatment for physical disease. The organisations' healing activities are their own offerings, and their effect on physical disease has not been established. [synthesis]
- Example language (illustrative): "That's something your doctor should check. Shall we work out how you'll raise it with them?"
- Watch for: relying on spiritual healing in place of medical care. It is working when the client has seen their doctor.
4.14 The therapist's role, self-disclosure and dual relationships
- Purpose: to keep clear roles. This matters especially for therapists who are themselves murids, Dance leaders or members of a related community. Use it at the start of therapy and whenever the boundary is tested.
- Steps: (1) Do not take as a client someone in your own group, circle or lineage if it would create a dual relationship. If unavoidable, discuss and document it, and seek consultation. (2) Self-disclose your own religious commitments only when it serves the client. (3) Do not act as guide, teacher or initiator in therapy. (4) Build spiritual and religious competence through training and consultation; Vieten et al. (2013) propose such competencies. [uncertain: not verified] (5) Follow your professional ethics code on multiple relationships and competence. [synthesis] (6) Refer to clergy, chaplains, spiritual directors or the client's own guide for spiritual direction.
- Example language (illustrative): "I'm here as your therapist, not as a spiritual teacher. For questions about the path itself, your guide is the right person, and I'm glad to help you think about how to ask."
- Watch for: the client asking you to rule on doctrine, and you agreeing with or arguing against the path. It is working when the roles stay distinct and the client uses each relationship for its purpose.
5. Handling problems
The organisations' sources do not address therapy problems. All responses below are [synthesis] unless a source is given.
- Client won't discuss the path ("it's private", "you wouldn't understand"). Respect this. Say that you will not ask for restricted content (4.3), and keep the offer open. Return to it only if symptoms seem linked to practice or to the community.
- Client wants the therapist to endorse or attack the path. Restate your role (4.14), and reflect the client's own ambivalence back to them. Do not take a side.
- Stuck: "my guide says this is a stage I must go through." Respect the framework while assessing function and risk (4.6). Ask whether the client would agree to the guide and the therapist both being kept informed (4.8). If there is psychosis, mania, suicidality or severe insomnia, medical review comes first, whatever the spiritual interpretation.
- Overwhelm during or after an intensive. Use grounding and dose reduction (4.6). Postpone further intensives, and plan the return with the facilitator if the client wishes (4.5). The Inayatiyya's own policy allows participants to be asked not to take part when psychologically unstable. [source: Global Ethics Policy]
- Non-adherence to therapy because of community commitments (service projects, residential schedules, retreats). Schedule around the observances. Explore whether the client chooses the commitments freely (4.9). Agree a minimum frequency of contact.
- Rupture: the client feels the therapist is hostile to their faith or to Meher Baba. Acknowledge it, apologise for any slip, and go back to the client's own goals. Consider consultation, or referral to a therapist from a similar background if the client prefers.
- Rupture: the community discourages therapy. Explore the client's own view. Offer the client a liaison with the guide (4.8) if they want one. Protect confidentiality from the community.
- Disclosure of sexual or financial exploitation by a leader. Follow 4.10. Check your mandatory reporting duties, especially for minors and vulnerable adults. Do not pressure the client toward any particular route. Name no one beyond what is clinically needed in records.
- Children raised in a community. Sufism Reoriented has run schools, The Meher Schools and Francis in the Schools, which are open to children outside the faith. [source: Sufism Reoriented lineage page; The FADER 2017] Assess the child's or teen's own wishes and assent, check for safeguarding concerns using standard procedures, and do not assume harm from membership itself. The Inayatiyya's policy requires leaders to follow national safeguarding protocols for under-18s. [source: Global Ethics Policy]
- Leaving creates practical crisis (housing or work tied to the community). Plan in stages and connect the client with social and legal advice (4.11).
- Spiritual emergency versus illness is unclear. Hold both possibilities. Get a psychiatric opinion, keep the spiritual framing available to the client, and review over time (4.6).
- The therapist is part of the same lineage or Dances network. Consult, and consider referral (4.14).
- Client seeks practices from the therapist or from online sources in place of a teacher. Restricted and initiatory practices belong to the client's legitimate guide or teacher. Encourage the client to raise their wish with the organisation, not to bypass it (4.3).
- Organisation facts are disputed or outdated (for example names, leaders or course formats change). Check the organisation's current site with the client. This guide reflects pages dated up to 2026 for Beshara and up to the 2023 succession for Sufism Reoriented.
Sources
Sources cited:
- An Introduction to the Inayatiyya Inner School
- Emergent leaders curriculum (Inayati Order)
- Inayatiyya Global Ethics Policy approved 26 July 2021
- About the Ruhaniat (Sufi Ruhaniat International)
- The Dance Leading Path (Dances of Universal Peace UK)
- The Lineage of Meher Baba's Sufism Reoriented
- Sufism Reoriented: daily life
- Barshad, A. The House Of Worship The Cheesecake Factory Built. The FADER, 12 July 2017.
- Jeffery-Street, I. (2012). Chisholme and Sherborne: The Introduction of Structured, Residential Courses. In Ibn 'Arabi and the Contemporary West: Beshara and the Ibn 'Arabi Society, pp. 74–88. Equinox. DOI 10.1558/equinox.19720
- Chisholme Institute Introductory Event (Beshara)
- 40 Day Retreat Course (Beshara, Chisholme, 2017)
- Discovering Unity Seven Day Retreat (Beshara)
- Study documents range of challenging meditation experiences (Brown University, 24 May 2017), reporting Lindahl et al. 2017, PLOS ONE
- ICD-10-CM Z65.8, Other specified problems related to psychosocial circumstances (includes 'Religious or spiritual problem'), https://www.unboundmedicine.com/icd/view/ICD-10-CM/945432/all/Z65_8___Other_specified_problems_related_to_psychosocial_circumstances
Also cited [uncertain: not verified]: the Ruhaniat "Mureed Advocate and Ethics" page; Farias et al. 2020, Acta Psychiatrica Scandinavica (systematic review of adverse effects of meditation); Britton's Cheetah House resources; Treleaven, D. (2018), Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness; Vieten et al. (2013) on spiritual and religious competencies; the DSM-5-TR Cultural Formulation Interview and its religious or spiritual problem category (Z65.8); IOCDF guidance on scrupulosity; the APA Ethical Principles of Psychologists and Code of Conduct.