Content note: this guide discusses suicide-related online content at professional level. It contains no method information. Crisis resources are in section 5.
1. Introduction
Version followed: Teal Swan, The Completion Process: The Practice of Putting Yourself Back Together Again (Hay House, 23 August 2016), as the publisher describes it, plus the practitioner-certification route as reported by Refinery29 (2018). Content beyond the publisher's description is marked [uncertain: not verified]. [source: NetGalley/Hay House listing; Refinery29 2018]
What it is. The Completion Process is a self-help healing method created by Teal Swan, an American online spiritual teacher with a large YouTube and social-media following. The publisher presents it as a 20-step process for healing past hurts and present problems. It says the method draws on Swan's stated extrasensory abilities (clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience) and on inner-child and shadow work. Swan is quoted calling it "also an enlightenment process". It is taught through the book, Swan's online content and retreats, and through practitioners certified by her organisation. [source: NetGalley/Hay House; Salon 2022; Refinery29 2018]
Core idea of change (as published). Present emotional pain is treated as having an origin in an earlier, often childhood, experience. Change is said to come when that origin is found, the emotion is validated, the person stays with it until relief arrives, and the experience is "closed" in a symbolic act of renewal. Refinery29 describes sessions as having a person re-enact a childhood moment to find the source of current pain. It links the method to recovered-memory therapy and Jungian shadow work. Swan's claim that her techniques process past trauma in order to overcome it is an attributed claim. [source: NetGalley/Hay House; Refinery29 2018]
Evidence status (one line). Controlled or peer-reviewed outcome studies of the Completion Process: none found in the sources consulted. Its memory-retrieval elements share features with recovered-memory and regression approaches, where suggestion can produce vivid but inaccurate memories (see Domain VI 110 (regression hypnotherapy) and 113 (Past-life regression)).
How this guide is used. This is a guide to the psychotherapist's work with clients who use, practise, have left, or are affected by the Completion Process and Swan's wider online movement. The therapist does not deliver the Completion Process or any regression-style procedure in therapy, and the guide gives no step-by-step script for it. [synthesis]
Context clinicians should know (reported concerns, attributed).
- Gizmodo's investigative podcast The Gateway (host Jennings Brown, launched 30 May 2018, six episodes) looked at Swan's online communities and her Costa Rica retreat centre. It followed her history back to a closed police investigation in Utah and the 1980s Satanic Panic. Gizmodo reported accusations that her content promoted suicide and that she ran a group with high-control features. Swan denies both. [source: Gizmodo 2018; Refinery29 2018]
- Major outlets reported that Swan's videos discuss suicide in ways that critics and the reporter considered at odds with suicide-prevention research and safe-messaging practice. Her content was reported as easy to find by people searching for help in crisis, and Swan reportedly told Brown she used search-optimisation techniques. [source: Vice 2018; Refinery29 2018]
- Refinery29 reported that some former followers believe her teachings contributed to two deaths by suicide. It noted that no charges were filed and the claims are unproven. Swan said she felt guilty after one death early in her career and denies encouraging suicide. These are allegations, not established findings. [source: Refinery29 2018; Vice 2018]
- Refinery29 linked the method's background to a Utah therapist Swan saw as a teenager. That therapist was investigated by a state licensing body over allegedly implanting false memories, and the charges were dropped after she agreed to probation. [source: Refinery29 2018]
- The Deep End (Freeform, four parts, May 2022; episodes on Hulu) followed Swan and her close community over several years. Salon describes the Completion Process in it as her "self-restoration program". Swan disputes how the series portrayed her. [source: Salon 2022; Wikipedia: [uncertain: secondary, unverified] for the length of filming and Swan's petition]
- Sociologist Janja Lalich, who studies high-control groups (quoted by Vice), describes how a leader can lead followers to "reframe" their past as damaged and present the leader as the way to recovery. She says vulnerable people can become unstable. Vice also notes that many followers say Swan's teachings kept them alive. [source: Vice 2018]
2. Framework
The Completion Process as published (outline only). The publisher lists five of the 20 steps by name. They are given here only so the therapist can recognise what a client describes:
- Creation of a Safe Haven: an imagined safe place from which a painful memory is revisited.
- Validation: the painful emotion is acknowledged as valid.
- Seeking Origin: asking when the feeling first arose, to find its root.
- Awaiting Relief: staying with the feeling in the memory until it shifts toward relief.
- Purification and Healing: a closing ritual for the memory and the start of a "new life".
The other 15 step names and their content are [uncertain: not verified]. [source: NetGalley/Hay House]
Formats. The method is delivered in four ways: self-guided from the book; sessions with a certified Completion Process practitioner (certification training reported at USD 2,600 in 2018); Swan's online videos; and retreats (a Costa Rica retreat reported at upwards of USD 2,000). Session counts and durations are not published in the sources here [uncertain: not verified]. [source: Refinery29 2018; Vice 2018]
The psychotherapist's framework: four overlapping phases. [synthesis]
- Engagement and meaning. Goal: understand what the Completion Process, Swan's teachings and the community mean in the client's life, in their own words. Move on when: the client has described their involvement without feeling judged, and you know their current level of use (book, practitioner, online, retreat).
- Safety and assessment. Goal: assess suicide risk (especially after exposure to suicide-related content), dissociation, psychosis, mania, OCD and grief. Assess how the client relates to any "memories" that surfaced in the process. Assess dependency, coercive control and financial exposure. Move on when: risk is assessed and a safety plan is in place where needed, and the differential is clear enough to plan treatment.
- Treatment of presenting problems. Goal: evidence-based treatment of whatever the client presents with (trauma, depression, grief, relationship or identity difficulties). Hold "recovered" memories with neutral, non-suggestive care. Reduce parasocial dependence if the client wants to. Move on when: symptoms and functioning improve and the client chooses their own relationship to the movement.
- Consolidation, leaving or integration. Goal: support whatever the client chooses: continued involvement with clearer boundaries, a gradual reduction, or leaving with attention to loss, community, identity and spiritual meaning. Include family work and referral where needed.
3. Guiding principles
- Curious, non-shaming stance. Ask about the content and community as you would about any important relationship. Ridicule makes disclosure less likely. [synthesis]
- Attribute, do not adjudicate. Describe Swan's claims (extrasensory perception, "origin" memories, enlightenment) as hers. Neither endorse nor dismiss them. Work with what they mean to the client. [synthesis]
- Safety first, always. Any engagement with suicide-related content calls for direct, routine risk assessment and safety planning. Asking about suicide does not plant the idea. [synthesis: standard practice]
- Safe messaging in the room. Do not discuss methods. Do not repeat or quote suicide-related content. Do not present suicide as a solution, relief or inevitable. Say plainly that suicide can be prevented and that help works. [source: SAVE Safe Messaging Guidelines; Action Alliance]
- No regression or memory-recovery work. Do not guide age regression, re-enactment, "seeking origin" imagery or any search for hidden memories. Suggestion can produce vivid, confidently held false memories. Cross-refer Domain VI 110 (regression hypnotherapy) and 113 (Past-life regression). [synthesis; Refinery29 2018 for the recovered-memory link]
- Neutral memory stance. Whether a memory that surfaced in the process is accurate cannot be settled in therapy. Treat it as the client's current experience, without confirming, disconfirming or elaborating its content. [synthesis]
- Differential assessment without pathologising belief. Spiritual belief and practice are not symptoms. Assess function, distress, insight and impairment. [synthesis]
- Client autonomy about the group. The client decides whether to stay, reduce involvement or leave. Your role is to widen choice and reduce harm, not to deprogramme. [synthesis]
- Watch for power and dependency. Notice idealisation of a teacher, giving up personal judgement, isolation from outside relationships, and spending under pressure. These are features scholars associate with high-control groups. [source: Vice 2018 (Lalich)]
- Clear role boundaries. In therapy the therapist is never a Completion Process practitioner, healer, reader or spiritual teacher, even if trained in such methods outside therapy. [synthesis]
- Youth safeguarding. Swan's content is easy for young people in distress to reach. Assess minors' exposure and follow local safeguarding procedures. [synthesis; Vice 2018 on searchability]
- Do not name or blame. Attribute allegations to the outlets that report them. Use role descriptions for private individuals. [synthesis]
4. Intervention inventory
These are the psychotherapist's interventions for clients involved with the Completion Process or Swan's online movement. None of them is a Completion Process step. All are [synthesis] unless a source is tagged.
4.1 Client-led exploration of meaning
- Purpose: understand what the practice, the teacher and the community give the client (hope, language for pain, belonging, a sense of being understood) and what they cost. Use it at intake and whenever involvement comes up.
- Steps: (1) Ask permission to talk about it. (2) Ask how the client found the content and what was happening in their life then. (3) Ask what has helped and what has not. (4) Reflect back in the client's own terms ("origin", "shadow", "inner child") without correcting them. (5) Note the client's current formats (book, practitioner, online, retreat) and how often they use each.
- Example language (illustrative): "Many people find Teal Swan's videos at a really hard moment. What was going on for you when you first came across them?" / "What has the Completion Process given you, and is there anything about it you've had mixed feelings about?"
- Watch for: defensiveness or expecting to be judged (slow down, affirm the client's autonomy); idealising language about the teacher; relief at being able to talk about it. It's working when the client talks openly about both benefits and doubts.
4.2 Cultural Formulation Interview, with the spirituality, religion and moral traditions module
- Purpose: place the client's involvement in their cultural and spiritual identity, explanatory models of distress, and sources of support, before making any diagnostic judgement. Use it early in assessment. [DSM-5-TR CFI wording: uncertain: not verified; follow the published instrument and do not reproduce its items]
- Steps: (1) Use the core CFI to ask about the client's own explanation of the problem, cultural identity, stressors and supports, and past help-seeking. (2) Use the supplementary module on spirituality, religion and moral traditions to map the client's spiritual identity, practices, community, and any spiritual stress. (3) Record where the client places the Completion Process, Swan's teachings and the online community in this map. (4) Ask what kind of help they hope for from therapy.
- Example language (illustrative): "How would you explain what you're going through, in your own words?" / "Where does your spiritual life fit in for you, and where does Teal's work fit in that?"
- Watch for: explanatory models in which all distress comes from childhood memories still to be found (this can drive repeated memory-searching); spiritual stress, such as fear of being "unhealed". The DSM-5-TR "Religious or Spiritual Problem" (Z65.8) may fit when the main focus is spiritual distress [source: ICD-10-CM Z65.8, Unbound Medicine; DSM-5-TR wording: uncertain: not verified].
4.3 Suicide risk assessment and safety planning after exposure to suicide-related content
- Purpose: make sure clients who have watched or taken part in suicide- or death-themed content or exercises are assessed and supported. Use it at intake with every client involved in this movement, and again whenever distress rises, the client attends a retreat, or the community goes through a death.
- Steps: (1) Ask directly and calmly about suicidal thoughts, intent, plans, past attempts and protective factors, using your service's standard risk-assessment framework. (2) Ask, without asking for detail, whether any content or exercise has affected how they think about suicide. (3) Collaborate on a written safety plan: warning signs, coping strategies, people and places, professional and crisis contacts, and making the environment safer through storing or removing means (lethal-means counselling only). (4) Agree on limits to exposure to suicide-related content and on what to do if they encounter it. (5) Escalate to crisis services or emergency care where risk is acute.
- Example language (illustrative): "Some of the content you've watched talks about suicide. I ask everyone about this: have you had thoughts of ending your life?" / "Suicide isn't the only way out of this pain. Let's work out together what helps you stay safe when it gets this bad."
- Watch for: suicide framed as relief, a reset, or something always available; increased rumination after viewing; a recent community death (contagion risk). Do not repeat, quote or debate specific content. Name it in general terms and redirect toward safety and hope. [source: SAVE Safe Messaging Guidelines; Action Alliance; Samaritans 2020 on online content]. It's working when the client uses the plan, reduces exposure, and names hope or reasons for living.
4.4 Neutral handling of memories that surfaced in the process
- Purpose: support clients who "found" childhood or past experiences during origin-seeking or re-enactment, without strengthening possibly suggested content or dismissing real abuse. Use it whenever such memories are disclosed. Cross-refer Domain VI 110 (regression hypnotherapy) and 113 (Past-life regression).
- Steps: (1) Listen and acknowledge the distress without asking leading questions about content ("who", "what else" probing is avoided). (2) Explain, in plain terms, how memory works: imagery, strong emotion, expectation and a trusted guide can create vivid memories that feel certain but may be inaccurate, and also that abuse does happen. (3) Agree that therapy will focus on present symptoms and functioning, not on confirming or recovering memories. (4) Use trauma-focused, evidence-based treatments only for symptoms tied to memories that are continuous or independently known; for uncertain memories, work on distress, meaning and coping. (5) Discuss consent and decisions before any confrontation, disclosure to family or legal step. Encourage time and independent advice. (6) Follow safeguarding and reporting duties where a current risk to a child or vulnerable adult is disclosed.
- Example language (illustrative): "What came up for you in that process clearly feels very real and painful. I'm not going to try to dig further or decide what happened. I want to help with how it's affecting you now." / "Memory can be shaped by strong feelings and by the way we're guided to look for things. That doesn't mean you're making anything up."
- Watch for: memories growing more elaborate over time; a belief that more memories must be found before healing; plans to confront or cut off family; dissociative symptoms; signs of DID-like presentations shaped by suggestion (refer for specialist dissociation assessment, without suggestive questioning). Refinery29 reported the recovered-memory lineage of the method. [source: Refinery29 2018]
4.5 Differential assessment without pathologising belief
- Purpose: tell apart spiritual experience and practice from psychosis, mania, dissociation, OCD, complicated grief or a mood disorder. Use it when the client reports unusual experiences, such as ESP or communications, or when functioning drops.
- Steps: (1) Ask whether the client's community would see the experience as typical. (2) Assess insight, flexibility, distress, impairment, sleep, and mood elevation or depression. (3) Screen for derealisation, depersonalisation and amnesia, especially after intensive visualisation or retreats. (4) Screen for intrusive, unwanted thoughts with compulsions or reassurance-seeking, such as compulsive re-watching or checking whether one is "healed". Offer ERP as OCD clinical sources describe it where indicated [uncertain: not verified]. (5) Assess grief where the client has lost someone in or through the community. (6) Refer to psychiatry for suspected psychosis or mania.
- Example language (illustrative): "Would other people who follow Teal's work see this experience the way you do?" / "Since the retreat, have there been times when things felt unreal, or when you lost track of time?"
- Watch for: fixed beliefs that cannot be questioned even within the client's own framework; sleep loss with grandiosity; persistent detachment from self or surroundings. It's working when you can name a working formulation that respects belief and identifies treatable conditions.
4.6 Reviewing parasocial dependence and online use
- Purpose: help the client see how they use the teacher's videos, livestreams and community, and decide whether to change it. Use it when the client's sense of self, choices or mood depends on the content.
- Steps: (1) Map a typical week: when, how long and in what emotional state the client watches or posts. (2) Ask what the teacher "is" to them (guide, parent figure, the only person who understands). (3) Explore how recommendation algorithms and search results deliver distress-focused content. (4) If the client wants to, agree on small experiments, such as watching only at set times, muting notifications, or adding offline supports. (5) Review the effects together.
- Example language (illustrative): "When you're at your lowest, what do you reach for first?" / "It sounds like she feels like the one person who really gets you. Who else in your life could get some of that space?"
- Watch for: distress when unable to watch; outside relationships shrinking; decisions deferred to the teacher's content. Larry Rosen, quoted by Refinery29, describes "technological dependence" that can make people easier for influencers to exploit. [source: Refinery29 2018]. It's working when the client chooses their use rather than being driven by it.
4.7 Assessing coercive control and financial exposure
- Purpose: identify high-control dynamics and financial harm without labelling the group. Use it when the client is in the inner community, has paid for training or retreats, or describes pressure.
- Steps: (1) Ask about spending (courses, practitioner sessions, certification, retreats), debt and pressure to spend. Reported prices include USD 2,600 for certification and upwards of USD 2,000 for a retreat. (2) Ask about isolation, including whether outside relationships are framed as harmful or "unhealed". (3) Ask whether doubts are reinterpreted as personal pathology, and whether the client's past is being reframed as entirely damaged with the leader as the only route to recovery. (4) Ask about access to an independent income, housing and relationships. (5) Write down specific concerns and the client's own view of them.
- Example language (illustrative): "How much have you spent on courses, sessions or retreats, and how do you feel about that?" / "When you've had doubts, how have people in the community responded?"
- Watch for: the reframing dynamic Janja Lalich describes, in which life before the group is cast as damaged and the leader as the way out; growing instability in vulnerable members; financial strain. [source: Vice 2018; Refinery29 2018]. Do not put labels on the group. Use the client's own words.
4.8 Supporting leaving, reducing involvement, or integration
- Purpose: support whatever the client chooses about their involvement, and the losses or religious-trauma responses that may follow. Use it when the client is reconsidering their involvement.
- Steps: (1) Explore what staying and leaving would each give and cost. (2) Plan for losing community, routine, identity and meaning. (3) Help the client rebuild social and spiritual supports outside the movement (other communities, secular or faith-based, as the client wishes). (4) Work with shame, self-blame, fear of being "unhealed" and distrust of helpers. (5) Re-check risk during transitions.
- Example language (illustrative): "You can take what was helpful and leave what wasn't. It doesn't have to be all or nothing." / "Leaving a community can feel like grief. That makes sense."
- Watch for: a surge in suicidal thoughts or dissociation during the transition; swinging to another all-explaining teacher; isolation. It's working when the client describes their own values and supports in their own words.
4.9 Working with family members' concerns
- Purpose: help relatives who are worried about a loved one's involvement to stay connected without confrontation. Use it when a family member is the client or joins sessions with consent.
- Steps: (1) Validate the worry. (2) Advise against ridicule, ultimatums or coercive "rescue". (3) Encourage curious contact and an open door. (4) Teach warning signs of suicide risk and crisis routes. (5) Support the family member's own wellbeing.
- Example language (illustrative): "Keeping the relationship warm is probably the most protective thing you can do right now."
- Watch for: relatives pushing for disclosure of the client's sessions (keep confidentiality); estrangement following memory-based accusations (see 4.4).
4.10 Youth safeguarding
- Purpose: protect children and adolescents exposed to suicide-related or distressing content, or to high-control family settings. Use it whenever the client is a minor or is a parent involved with the movement.
- Steps: (1) Ask about online viewing in a developmentally appropriate way. (2) Assess suicide and self-harm risk (4.3). (3) Agree on supervision and content limits with carers, with the young person's assent. (4) Follow local child-protection procedures where there is risk of harm. (5) Make sure spiritual or "healing" explanations do not replace assessment of treatable conditions.
- Example language (illustrative): "Lots of people your age come across videos about feeling hopeless. Have you seen any that stuck with you?"
- Watch for: secret viewing; self-harm; withdrawal. Vice reported that videos aimed at people in crisis were easy to find through search. [source: Vice 2018]
4.11 Role boundaries and referral
- Purpose: keep therapy separate from spiritual practice, and connect the client with the right services. Use it throughout.
- Steps: (1) Decline to run Completion Process steps, regression, readings or healing in therapy, even if asked. (2) If you have trained in such methods yourself, do not offer them to therapy clients and do not refer clients to your own spiritual services. (3) Refer to psychiatry (psychosis, mania, severe depression), specialist trauma or dissociation services, crisis services, financial or legal advice, and community or faith leaders if the client asks. (4) Coordinate care with the client's consent.
- Example language (illustrative): "I'm not going to guide you through that process here. My job is to help with what's going on in your life using approaches we know are safe."
- Watch for: pressure to become the client's new guide; dual relationships. Ethics points here are [synthesis].
5. Handling problems
All guidance here is [synthesis] unless a source is tagged.
- The client wants you to do the Completion Process with them, or to "go to the origin". Explain kindly why you don't use regression or memory-search methods, which can produce memories that feel real but are not accurate. Offer present-focused, evidence-based alternatives, such as grounding, emotion regulation and trauma-focused therapy for known events. Cross-refer Domain VI 110 (regression hypnotherapy) and 113 (Past-life regression).
- The client defends the teacher and expects to be judged. Name your stance: you are not there to take their beliefs away. Return to what they want from therapy. Don't argue about the reporting.
- The client brings up allegations about suicide-related content or follower deaths. Talk about them as reported concerns and allegations, not established facts. Refinery29 reported that some former followers attribute two deaths to her teachings, that no charges were filed and that the claims are unproven. Swan denies encouraging suicide. [source: Refinery29 2018]. Do not quote the content, describe deaths, or discuss methods. Move to the client's own safety and feelings.
- Suicidal thoughts increase after viewing content or attending a retreat. Assess risk now, update the safety plan, reduce exposure, involve supports, and use crisis services when risk is acute (4.3). Safe messaging: say that suicide can be prevented, that help works, and that intense pain can pass. [source: SAVE; Action Alliance]
- A death in the community (possible contagion). Offer extra sessions or contact if your service allows. Reassess the risk of everyone affected. Give postvention support and grief work. Avoid going over details.
- Overwhelm, flashbacks or dissociation after origin-seeking work. Stabilise first with grounding, orientation and pacing. Pause trauma processing. Screen for dissociative disorders and refer if needed.
- Memories that keep growing or lead to accusations against family. Return to the neutral memory stance (4.4). Slow down decisions, recommend independent advice, and keep safeguarding duties in mind.
- Non-adherence (missed sessions, continued heavy viewing). Explore ambivalence with motivational interviewing. Revisit the client's own goals. Small changes count.
- Rupture: the client feels the therapist is "against" the teacher. Acknowledge it, ask what happened, take responsibility for any judgement you showed, and repair. Re-confirm the client's autonomy.
- Financial harm or pressure to pay for more training. Help the client make a budget and a plan. Refer for debt or consumer advice. Explore what the spending is meant to buy (healing, belonging, status).
- Stuck: the client sees every problem as an "unhealed" childhood origin. Gently widen the formulation to include current stressors, relationships, biology and sleep. Use behavioural experiments to test whether change can happen without finding an origin.
- Minors at risk. Follow child-protection procedures. Involve carers where safe. Arrange urgent assessment for self-harm or suicidal intent.
- The therapist's own reactions (fascination, contempt, rescuing). Take them to supervision.
Crisis resources. USA: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988, or chat at 988lifeline.org). UK and Ireland: Samaritans, 116 123, free, day or night. Elsewhere: local emergency services or national crisis lines. [source: SAVE; Action Alliance; Samaritans]
Note on harm documentation. Reliable reporting describes concerns and allegations, including disputed links between the teachings and follower deaths. They do not report court, regulator or independent-investigation findings of harm caused by the Completion Process. So no separate harm account is given here. Clinicians should treat the risks above (suicide-related content, suggestion and false memory, dependency and financial exposure) as risks to assess with each client. Further reports by the BBC (2019), the Guardian (2018) and E! (2022) are cited in secondary sources [uncertain: not verified].
Sources
- The Completion Process (NetGalley listing, Hay House, 2016)
- Gizmodo (2018), "Gizmodo Launches 'The Gateway', an Investigative Podcast…" (Jennings Brown)
- Gizmodo (2018), "Internet Spiritual Guru Teal Swan Says She Isn't a Cult Leader…"
- Refinery29 (2018), on The Gateway and Teal Swan
- Vice (2018), on Teal Swan and women-led groups (quotes Janja Lalich)
- Salon (2022), Joy Saha, on The Deep End
- Wikipedia, "Teal Swan" [uncertain: secondary, unverified]
- SAVE, Safe Messaging Guidelines
- National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention, Public messaging
- Samaritans (2020), guidance on self-harm and suicide content online
- Swan, T. (2016). The Completion Process: The Practice of Putting Yourself Back Together Again. Hay House.
- ICD-10-CM Z65.8 "Other specified problems related to psychosocial circumstances" (Includes: religious or spiritual problem): ICD-10-CM Z65.8 (Unbound Medicine)
- Cross-references: Domain VI 110 (regression hypnotherapy, harm account); 113 Past-life regression.